Long distance relationships definitely work!

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Long distance relationships are often seen as something that mostly end up with heart breaks or betrayal but with a little self maturity and discipline, it can be turned into a happy ending.

Before you try and make it work, you have to be aware of what kind of relationship you are into, whether it is lust or love. There is no point of investing years of your life when you know that your relationship is only based on lust but if you are sure that both of you are looking for something deeper and something more meaningful then yes, it can definitely work.

New technologies have made it easier to maintain long distance relationships but frequent communication is not always necessary, it does not actually matter. Building trust in the person is what really matters!

Being so far away from one another, it becomes hard to meet often and the longer you wait, you start feeling that the time is dragging and your interest is fading away slowly but if you can keep yourself busy and you are a person who has a lot of hobbies then you will realise that time flies and it’s that time again when you are going to meet your partner.

Conflicts between couples are very common and some of the conflicts end up into a break up but people in long distance relationships need to try and solve it faster or avoid conflicts because you have to make the most out of the little time you spend with each other.

Being independent is the key. You have to be someone who is not dependent, someone who is comfortable with going out alone or going to events and socialising with everyone. Remember you are not looking out for somebody or for a company. You are out to have fun.

Plan a place for the future where both of you can finally live together and a time frame for that. You need to create that incentive to wait for each other. Working things out for the future, whether its work wise or a place where both of you would love to live is necessary because finally you will have to eventually find a way to be next to each other.

Finally, love is what is stronger than any other thing so keep adding a little love everyday and some day it will definitely build the walls of your home together.

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