Deciding whether someone is a keeper or not can get you in a double bind. We tend to keep ourselves blind folded because we are interested in the person and every time we get hints that he/she isn’t a keeper, we try to ignore the negatives.

Well, each one of us are searching for our true soulmates and everyone in the end of the day is looking forward to stability. The truth is that everyone is a keeper for someone or the other but how can you recognise if someone is a keeper for you or not?

Are they ready for you? It’s hard to change a person or even try to change their routine. So there is no point waiting for them to be ready, it’s going to take a lot longer than you think. They have to be ready by themselves, you can’t change it no matter how hard you try.

Do words and actions match? If they say they will call you at a certain time or fix a date on the certain day, the keepers will make sure they are there for you. More importantly, they will check up on you in between and they will always want to be a provider.

Is career more important? If you hear them talking too much about how important their career is or that they have a lot going on. Well, they are really not lying and a lot must be going on but you got your sign. You need to hit the accelerator and move on because may be the person is a keeper but not for you.

Giving a commitment to somebody is all about timing. Sometimes even if the person is right, the timing is wrong. So don’t blame yourself if it doesn’t work. There is nothing wrong with you. All you have to do move on and create the space for the keeper or else how will they come into your life?