Her daughter’s mother.

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It was already 11.30 at night. Kelly had gone everywhere to find her daughter and she was terrified with the thought that it was actually impossible for Anna to find the house or the hospital by herself.

Anna was now 22 and had developed schizophrenia at the age of 16. Ever since, Kelly had to leave everything that she was doing to take care of her daughter.

She spent days and nights in the hospital. Her daughter wouldn’t take her medicines most of the time and she would run away from the Psychiatric ward almost every night. Some times it was only around the hospital campus and the other times they found her next to the lake, sitting under a tree.

The campus of Rex Hospital was huge and Kelly had taken at least ten rounds in the campus before she went to the lake to search for her. No one was around. The guards near the lake told her that it had been a while since they had seen her daughter around the lake.

She felt helpless, felt weak. It was enough. Enough of being worried everyday. The nurses in the Rex Hospital treated her daughter well because Dr. Stanley Rex was Kelly’s father. She had many cousins but no siblings and before he passed away, he had transferred all his possessions to her name. Her father was the richest man in the family and soon Kelly found it difficult to handle things at home. The maids began to snoop into her belongings, going through her cupboards and purse. They were spying on her to give bank account and credit card information to her cousins and other people in her extended family. She ended up firing all the maids when someone tried to poison her daughter. She never found out who it was. She was fortunate that they reached the hospital in time and her daughter was saved.

It was getting dark. A cool breeze made her shiver. She sat down on a bench in a park next to the lake wondering what to do, where to go, whom to call and how she was ever going to find her daughter. Suddenly, she saw something moving in the distance.

There was a familiar figure moving towards her. She wasn’t able to see clearly so she got up and started walking towards the figure. A ray of the streetlight illuminated the person in front of her and she gasped.

It was Anna! But why was she wearing a wedding gown?

How did she get herself dressed? Kelly thought. She was in the hospital just two hours ago and what was she doing in a wedding dress?
“Anna!” She called. “Anna!”

Anna stopped in her tracks and looked up at her. She stared at her mother blankly and then turned around and walked away quickly in the opposite direction.

“Wait! Anna wait!” She screamed.

Anna didn’t listen to her and began to run. She chased after her but Anna’s young legs took her farther away from her mother who was running out of breath. Kelly ran as much as she could, as fast as she could but Anna was too quick for her. She ran so far away until she disappeared into the darkness.

Kelly sat down. Tears welled in her eyes but she got up again and pushed on holding her side. She made it to the point where the road forked. Now she had to decide which direction to go. She shut her eyes and swallowed. Her mouth was dry, her heart was pounding. Tears dripped down her face. She was scared. Too afraid, not of the darkness but of the thought that she might lose her daughter forever.

She had to choose one road. She finally chose the one leading toward her house. Perhaps her daughter would have taken that road. Some times when you can’t decide which way to go, you tend to choose the one that feels familiar. May be her daughter could have found the road familiar or was she taking the road because it was familiar to her?

She started running again. She could no longer feel the presence of her daughter in front of her. She considered turning back and trying the other road but she was so far down this one already. She decided to check the house first.

She reached her familiar gate finally. She walked in hoping that her daughter would be inside.

The gate stood wide open. She looked inside and saw an ambulance. They must have been waiting there for Anna. She walked through the gates and saw an unfamiliar young nurse.

“Sister!” She shouted, “did you find her?”

The nurse walked towards her, she didn’t answer.

“Did you find her?” Kelly asked again.

“No ma’am, but we have sent people to search for her from the hospital. We came here to the house thinking she could be here.” The nurse said. She looked nervous.

“Thank you,” Kelly said. “Thank you so much. I saw her in the park but she ran away. She was dressed in a wedding dress. I don’t know why she was in a wedding dress! And then I lost her at the fork in the road. We need to go right now to that other road.”

“Ma’am, we’ll do that but right now you need to relax. You still haven’t had your pills for your blood pressure. It’s not safe for you to run around in this state.” The nurse looked concerned.

“Yes, thank you, dear. What is your name?”

“Sharon,” she said.

“Thank you, Sharon. I need to take my pills. I’m already feeling heaviness in my head but I don’t have time to go inside the house.” She was desperate to find her daughter. She didn’t care about herself or what might happen to her health. She just needed to see her daughter’s face.

“Don’t worry ma’am. We have it in our medicine kit inside the ambulance. Let’s get inside and get going, we shouldn’t be too late.”

They walked towards the ambulance and got inside.

“Where did she get a wedding dress from?” Sharon asked as they entered inside the ambulance.

“I don’t know! I’m so tired of doing this everyday, Sister.” Kelly said. “I haven’t slept properly for so many days and I’ve given up hope on them finding a cure for her disease.”

“Don’t worry ma’am, God has a plan for everybody. I’m sure everything will be fine.” The nurse said as she gave her the medicine.

“Thank you. You are very kind. God bless you.” Kelly took the medicines and had it. She felt a little better after having a sip of water. She was so dehydrated and exhausted.

She began to feel a little calm.

“Please tell the driver to take the left fork,” Kelly said, looking at the nurse and then towards the driver. She was so exhausted that she couldn’t speak properly.

“Don’t worry ma’am, he already knows the way.” Sharon said.

Kelly kept looking towards the road until she finally dosed off.

ONE HOUR LATER.

In the hospital…

It was Dr. Parik’s first day in the department. He hated psychiatry but it was a requirement in his university for him to do one month in it during his internship. Stupid crazies, he thought. You never know which one is going to flip and when.

He walked into the female ward at precisely 7 am. He would spend not more than thirty minutes after which he would go home and sleep for another three or four hours before the clinic started. Hopefully he would be able to get over his hangover.

A group of nurses were crowded around the nurses’ desks. “Let’s go!” he shouted. “Sister, come.”

An older nurse in glasses approached him. The others looked in her direction. Must be the head-nurse, Dr. Parik thought. “Ok let’s go, sister, bring the patients to the front of the beds.”

One by one the patients were made to stand next to their beds.

“What’s this case?” he asked.

“Doctor,” a nurse volunteered. “This is Mary.”

“I didn’t ask for the name. Bed number 1. What’s the case?”

The patient turned towards him and said, “I am Mary! I am the Mother of God! I have come to save you my son!”

Dr. Parik stepped back. Some of the nurses giggled. “Quiet!” he yelled. He yanked the chart from the nurse’s hands and looked at the past history and the medications and made a few squibbles in the chart that nobody else would probably understand.

“Next,” he said.

Schizophrenia, depression, failed suicide attempts he went through each one, made a few squibbles and scratches in the chart, in essence not making any major changes and he moved on. At last he came to bed 23.

“What’s the case?” he droned and looked up from his chart. The patient was still in her bed. “Who’s the nurse?” he asked.

“Me, doctor,” said a young voice from behind.

“What’s your name? And tell me about this case.” He asked.

“My name is Sharon Murphy. And this case…”

Sharon looked apologetically at Kelly. She turned to the doctor and said as softly and as loudly as she felt was right.

“Her daughter, Anna, was suffering from schizophrenia also. She died 3 years ago. Ms. Kelly was taking care of her daughter for the past 12 years until her daughter finally decided to take her own life. At first Ms. Kelly was in denial and over time she finally developed schizophrenia herself. She thinks her daughter is alive and has visual and auditory hallucinations about her daughter. She runs away at night searching for her daughter sometimes but since she has delusion of grandeur, she thinks she owns the hospital and her daughter is admitted here so she comes back.”

“Oh good runs away but returns. My dog also does that.” He laughed expecting giggling from the nurses but there was silence. “I mean that’s so dangerous! How is this happening? What are all the nurses doing in this hospital? Patient running away. Where does she go?”

Sharon looked at him feeling a little irresponsible and replied. “She doesn’t go far. She is either in the campus or we find her in the director’s quarter. She thinks it’s her house.”

“Oh okay.” Dr. Parik turned towards Kelly. “Ms. Kelly! Hello!”

Kelly opened her eyes slowly.

“Hello Ms. Kelly, listen, you are in the hospital. My name is Dr Pratik I am your doctor.”

“Yes, Rex Hospital, Kelly said. My father was Dr. Stanley Rex. He died and left me this hospital.”

Dr. Pratik straightened up suddenly and looked at the nurses. The head nurse shook her head and he understood that this was also a delusion.

“Did you find my daughter?” She asked.

“No, we…” Dr Pratik could not finish speaking when Kelly suddenly started shouting.

“ANNAAAA. MY ANNA.”

Sharon tried to hold her and calm her down but it only became worse.

Kelly shouted more. She thrashed and scratched. She screamed at the nurses and caught on to Dr Pratik’s collar until she was pinned down to the floor finally by five people. Sharon came by with a needle and skillfully injected her with it.

Kelly fought back for a little bit more but then she felt drowsy. The whole world became blurry and she was lightheaded.

Kelly felt calm again. The sounds around her were muffled. She looked at the door and saw a girl wearing a white dress. She smiled at her.

My dear daughter. Kelly thought. She has finally come. How beautiful she looks on her wedding day. She is such a wonderful bride.

“Come here precious,” she tried to mumble but the words did not escape her mouth. “Where did you go? Come here to me.”

Some how her daughter still understood and her smiling daughter walked towards her bed, sat on it and laid down next to her. Kelly put her arms around her, hugged her daughter and slowly closed her eyes.

Kelly smiled weakly. “Anna” was the last word she mouthed before closing her eyes and drifting off to a deep sleep.

Me amas? Do you love me? I mean, Tume mote Bhola pao ki?

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She lived in a small village called Basmapur in Orissa, India. Her world was the tiny village. To her it was big, she had only a bicycle to take her everywhere so any place she needed to go to, she had to cycle for a very long distance.

Her favourite place was the beach, no not the main beach in Basmapur where all the tourists normally went. She found her part of the beach, it was hers, at least until the tourists reached there too. She would go there every evening and take a walk. Sit by the beach, walk into the water till it touches her ankles. She loved the feeling of wet sand and how her feet sank into it every time the waves crossed her.

If she had a choice, she would have been on the beach the whole day but she didn’t have the luxury of it. She was the only daughter of a fisherman, and her mother, she heard, had eloped with another man when she was a baby and abandoned her. Her father took care of her until he never came back after his day in the sea. He had gone fishing and the last rumour she heard was that he went far away into the sea and lost his way.

It was just a year ago when the incident took place, she was just 16. Her father couldn’t have abandoned her because she was a princess to him. He brought her up differently from the other kids in the village as she was among one of the girls who got to attend school. Most children were helping their parents with work. May be she would have been amongst them but she was lucky that the government had announced free education till the eighth standard.

It was in the middle of her eight standard that she had to quit her school because she had to find a job to feed herself and also maintain her house as she was the head of the family now. She was thankful that she could at least study till her seventh standard. Not many people were educated in her village so she managed to get a job very quickly: a receptionist at a travel agency. It was the only business, after fishing that was in demand in Basmapur, thanks to the beautiful beaches.

“Hello! Do you make hotel reservations?” a man’s voice asked.

She looked up to see him. “Hello! Please repeat,” she said, it was too fast for her. She had learnt English in school but had rarely had a conversation in it with anyone.

“Huh!” He thought he was pretty loud and clear. This wasn’t the first time someone didn’t understand the way he spoke. He repeated, “Hotel booking. Here?”

“Yes! Yes!” She answered. There was no hotel booking services at her travel agency but if she took a tourist to a hotel, she could get a commission out of it.

He was one of those travelers who never had pre-booked tickets or hotels. This had never been an inconvenience to him until he reached Basmapur. There was just one signboard of a hotel that he found and the only three rooms in the hotel were occupied. He thought he would find another one, walked miles but did not see a single hotel on his way until he finally reached this travel agency. Probably the only one in the whole village, he thought.

She quickly cleared her table and grabbed her bag which was rested on the wall in the corner of the tiny room they were in. “Mu hotel ku jaiki asibi.” She said looking at the old lady on the other side of the room. The owner’s wife probably.

He had no idea what was going on, no idea what she just said. The only two languages he spoke were English and Spanish. He was from the United States, and this was his first trip to India.

He waited patiently for her to say something to him.

“Come.” She said as she walked out of the door. “I go, you, hotel.”

“Hotel?!” He asked. “You’re going to take me to a hotel?”

“Yes.” She answered and waited for him to follow.

She unlocked her bicycle wheels and sat on the seat. “Sit”, she said, looking at him and pointing to the back seat.

He was surprised. “No, no. How far is it? Can we walk?” He said looking perplexed.

“Tike aste aste kuhantu, English bholo se bujhi paru nahin” then realising he wouldn’t have understood a word, she said, “Slow, I English very little.”

“We go walking? Hotel?” This time he said very slowly, dropping grammar excesses, trying to show a little sign language too by moving his index and middle finger to show the walking action.

“Long, no walk. Hotel long.” She said thinking that this time she got it right.

He knew that the bicycle was the only way out. There were no other vehicles around except two buses with the travel agency’s name on them.

“May I?” He asked holding on to the handle of her bicycle.

“Ok. Dhanyabad.” She replied. He finally understood the word. It meant thank you. He had learnt few Oriya words on his way to Orissa.

They were finally on their way, she managed to guide him.

“Ruha! Ruha!” She shouted out.

He figured she meant- stop.

It was the same hotel he had been to earlier. It felt good riding a bicycle through the village. It reminded him of his childhood, which was probably the last time he rode a bicycle. He didn’t realise that they were heading the same direction he came walking from.

“Hotel full. No room.” He tried to explain it to her but she was already heading through the entrance.

He stood there waiting for her to return. In two minutes she was out looking sad.

“Full, no hotel.” She said looking concerned.

“It’s okay, we go to another hotel,” he just wanted to make sure that she understood so he said it again.

“No, no hotel. One hotel, this hotel. No hotel.” She sounded worried. It was already getting dark. The time was already 6.30 pm and the last bus was at 4 pm.

There was just one hotel in the village. Most tourists came to see the beach and they would normally go back. No one really stayed there, and if they did, rooms were usually available.

“Chalo! Come.” She said after thinking for a while, she thought she would talk to the travel agency and ask them to allow him to stay there, there was no bed but may be he could manage to sleep on the floor.

When they reached, it was dark already and she wasn’t surprised. It was locked.

He also started to get a little worried but if he could find any quiet place, may be the beach. He could sleep in the open.

“No worries. Where is the beach? I sleep there.” He tried to make her understand that he was fine. He was there for a holiday and what better can he ask than a night spent on the beach, under the sky.

“Okay, beach. Mo gharoku aasa. Eat and go beach.” She wanted to make sure that he ate something and there was no other place to take him to eat other than her house.

“You take me, beach?” He felt fortunate to find her in this little village. He was looking at the tourist guide book of Orissa and saw some pictures of the beaches of this village, it looked amazing and that’s how he had ended up there. He had no regrets.

They walked with the bicycle by their side. Finally, they reached a small hut.

“You eat and we beach.” She thought her sentence sounded wrong judging by his expression. She tried again. “We go beach, we eat, after eating.”

He had food packed in his bag. It was enough for two. He quickly took the food out from his bag because it was hard to explain it, may be she would feel that he didn’t want to eat with her if he didn’t accept her offer.

“We go to the beach and we eat there? Together?” He asked.

She smiled at him and nodded her head.

“Wait.” She said to him and opened the gate made out of bamboo. She left her bicycle and came out.

It was already dark. As she came out she said, “Beach. Here, beach.”

He suddenly realised that the ground was made of sand. He was already at the beach. He couldn’t see the water yet because they were a little far away from it.

They walked towards the water and found a place to sit.

They ate together and they spoke about a lot of things in broken English. They slowly began to effectively communicate. They spoke about the food they liked, the stars they could see, about family, friends.

“Where from?” she asked him.

“America.”

“Ohhhh! Amrika?!” She had never met anyone from there before. “What doing?”

“What do I do? As in work?”

She nodded her head.

“Oh I’m a pilot, ummmm…plane, flying?” He pointed at the sky and then his hands and also made a whooshing sound of jet.

“Oh, plane driver?” She said.

“A pilot…YES! A plane driver,” he said smiling at her innocence.

They continued talking for a while until they couldn’t take the pestering of mosquitoes anymore.

“Many mosquitoes running, you me go walking,” she said.

He had found the most adorable girl he had ever met in his lifetime. He felt like pinching her cheeks every time she said something. Mosquitoes running? That was the cutest thing he ever heard.

They took a long walk barefooted on the wet sand. Talking, walking, sitting, standing, talking and talking. Both of them were having a wonderful time when finally they could see the sun rising across the horizon.

He had met the most wonderful girl in a place he never knew about. They had the opposite lives and lived on opposite sides of the globe. When he was six, his father had died in the war. The only memory he had of his father was of his photographs and of the coffin at his funeral. His mother smoked and drank herself to death and at the age of fourteen, he lost her too. He went from one foster home to another. His relationships were a plain and empty blur. He saw kids at his foster homes end up on the streets, doing drugs. He didn’t have the picture-perfect American family life that Hollywood showed and he wondered often if that even existed. He knew he didn’t want to end up on the streets like the people around him. When he was eighteen he took a loan and bussed tables, cleaned bathrooms and did other odd jobs to put himself through flying school. He wanted to be a pilot like his dad. But he didn’t want to join the military. As far as he knew, the military had abandoned his mother and him.

He travelled the world, meeting people and experiencing cultures. He saw the same human struggle in every person he met, the wish to live a happier and more content life. He met a few women and dated a little but there was always something missing. He didn’t have a connection.

Not until now. There was something about this girl that drew him to her. He did not speak her language and she barely spoke his. But in her eyes he saw what he saw everyday looking into the mirror.

He was in India for three weeks on vacation. He had heard so much about the culture and the food and the spirituality and fulfillment that his passengers told him they found there. He always thought he would feel this at the foothills of the Himalayas or while meditating in Varanasi but here on this beach in Orissa, walking barefooted in the sand, speaking to a girl whom he barely knew but felt like he had known forever.

He told her about his childhood. She told him about hers about how she had been abandoned and lost but how she still survived. She didn’t have any big hopes or dreams. She thought she would get married because that was what girls did. Maybe she would have a family. But she wanted to continue working.

He thought about how she was born in, grew up in and lived in the same place to die in the same place.

For him the world was just a flight away. What difference did international borders make to him? The entire world was connected and smaller for him. For her, it was an uncharted, scary universe and it made her anxious to think beyond her little village.

He was supposed to travel east to Kolkata and then south but he couldn’t get himself to leave just yet. He turned to her. “Me, I stay here for more days. We go to hotel and book the room. Okay?”

“Okay, you like Basmapur?”She asked, happy that he was staying for longer. She had found a friend after a long time. The girls didn’t talk to her because she had attended school and none of them did and the boys in school took her as a lower caste.

“Yes, I love Basmapur, and you.” He answered.

She smiled. He didn’t know if she understood. They slowly took a walk to the hotel though it was a very long walk. The room was going to be vacant that evening so she took him to her house to stay in until then and she went off to work.

When she was at work, he would sit on the beach, looking into the horizon and wondering how what lay beyond could be any better than where he was now. She would come back from work and they would talk and eat.

He was used to getting stares because of the color of his skin. Normally, people would just stare. On occasion someone would come up to him and try to sell him things. He was used to this no matter which country he went to. But he began to notice that people were staring at her too disapprovingly. Perhaps it was because of him?

He tried to ask her about it but she brushed it off. “People staring always. Beautiful girl, they staring. Ugly girl, they staring. Girl with boy they staring. They staring always. Don’t worry. Be happy. If you listen them, you never happy.”

He smiled. He knew she was not well educated but she was wise beyond her years. Her English wasn’t good but to be honest, her command of English was a thousand times better than his Oriya or even his Spanish. If anything, she had the upper-hand.

Three weeks passed in what seemed like only days. He couldn’t stay any longer. His job and life awaited him.

“You have a phone?” He asked, wondering how he was going to keep in touch with her.

“No, no phone.” She answered.

He took out his laptop and connected to the Internet. There was a naval port near by so he was sure there had to be a tower somewhere. And of course there is a computer in the travel agency too.

He spent time teaching her how to use the internet and helped her open an email account. This was the only idea he could think of. He couldn’t give her his phone because it had been acting strange, doing things by itself. She had noticed it and commented “Your phone, master. Not doing what saying.” By then he was used to her language and understood what she meant: the phone was commanding itself. He then taught her the word ‘command’ and also about viruses that enter the phone.

“Mu tamuku Bahutu mane Pakai,” she looked at him and said, “Matra gote bhasa jothesta nuhe.” She was sad because she couldn’t explain it in English.

But he saw it in her eyes and understood. “I love you. I’ll come back for you. I’m not leaving you. I’ll come back.” He said.

“Mu bujhe.” She said and translated what she said, “I understood.”

He kissed her forehead and said a goodbye and left. His last words were, “I love you. I’ll come back.”

Three days passed without a word from him. She kept checking her email because that was the only way she could wait for him.

One week passed. No mail.

She was staring at the computer screen and then suddenly she heard a beep. She had never heard that sound before. She was worried if she did anything wrong. Then she suddenly saw…

1 new mail.

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Nomoskar!

I’m sorry I wasn’t able to email you earlier. My flight made an emergency landing in an airport near Budapest. The weather took a turn for the worse and we are stuck in a snowstorm. There is no internet available and I’m using someone else’s phone to write to you. I just want you to know I am safe and I don’t want you to think I’ve forgotten you.

I know our time together was short. I know we come from different worlds, that we are worlds apart but the only world I want to be in is with you.

I have to give the phone back. I will write to you later.

Mo tomoku bholo pauchi!
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She finally got a mail, a mail! From him. He remembered her. He mailed her. Finally, finally, finally. She was so excited but now it was her turn to reply.

He had taught her to press the reply button to mail back but in the excitement and hurry in mailing him, she pressed the forward button. Now she had no idea what to do. She panicked and decided to switch off the computer instead and log in again.

Finally started typing.

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ok how ar you i am fine phul stop i very heppi you letter

when you come

beach no body i walking end walking

please come

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This was the first letter she had ever written in her life and she didn’t know if it was correct. She read the letter over and over to make sure it sounded alright. She sent it hoping for the best.

But when he saw it, it brought a smile to his face. She was trying her best and not afraid of showing him her weaknesses.

She waited for a mail everyday and he made sure she received one everyday, some times two, sometimes more. He mailed her from every place he landed. And he made her live his life through the mails.

He was back to his regular life, flying from one place to the next, sleeping in hotel rooms which all began to look the same, and he was flying again to another place. He worked and was exhausted everyday. What was the point of his struggles? He worked before because it gave him something to do that was better than selling drugs on the street. But now he felt like he had a bigger purpose.
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I looked up why my phone is listening to its own commands. I don’t think my phone has a virus. I looked at a forum and they made some suggestions so lets see.

I’m in the airport, I use to love going on the plane. It felt like an old home. Plus being so high in the sky! So high!

In the sky baby! But it’s nothing like sitting next to you on the beach.

Also I just drank a beer (water) in the airport bar hehe. Ok going to go to be a plane driver now.

Just wrote to say hi and hi.

Also I love you!

And I love you in the sky! In the sky!

Ok now I go to the sky to go love you from there.

Hopefully there are no mosquitoes that go running.

Hahahaha

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I’m taking off from Baltimore baby. Just wanted to say goodnight. You’re probably still sleeping.

I love you.

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I just landed in Newyork and now I have to get on my plane to fort Lauderdale (its next to Miami).

I loved you all the time from when I was high in the sky and also on the ground. Also while landing.

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He mailed every single day, month after month until one day, the letters stopped coming.

A second felt like minutes, a minute felt like hours, hours felt like months and days felt like years.

She loved him and he was the only friend she had.

She knew of no future with him because she couldn’t imagine it. She knew that she was just a poor, uneducated, orphaned girl in a little village. He was a pilot who flew big aeroplanes in the sky and travelled around the whole world. Why would he come to her? It was more likely that he would have found somebody else. But she thought may be he would visit Basmapur again. She looked at her atlas and saw all of the places in all those countries where he could be. Why would he come back? But if he did, she would be happy. This boy came all the way from America. He was the only friend she had ever had. She just wanted to spend another moment with him, even as just a friend.

She waited and waited but her inbox was empty.

She sat quietly, looking at the notebook in front of her on her table. It had the list of names of people booked their tickets that morning. She didn’t see his name in there anywhere. She stared at it and day-dreamed. Maybe she was being silly hoping for him to come back.

She was blankly still staring at her list when suddenly someone dropped a paper ball on her table. She looked up and got a shock. It was him! He was standing right in front of her. But she couldn’t move or say anything. She couldn’t breathe.

“Khola”, he said pointing to the paper ball. “Khola,” he repeated and smiled.

She tried to say something but he was insistent that she open the paper first.

She slowly opened it.

Scribbled in it were words in Oriya. “Tume mo sahita asiba ki? MARRY ME.”

She looked at him with tears. She stood up not knowing what to say or do.

He smiled. He said the words to her. “Tume mo sahita asiba ki?”

“Han naschita!” She replied.

“Me amas?” He spoke in Spanish by mistake, “Do you love me?” No. No. No, That’s not the language he wanted to say it in,”I mean, tumme mote bhola pao ki?” He finally asked.

She laughed at his accent. It was adorable. “Yes! Yes, I love you.”

They reached out for each other and hugged.

“I thought you never come,” she said. Tears welled in her eyes. “I thought you forget me. I thought you go everywhere in atlas and forget me.”

“I went everywhere in the world to find you, not to forget you.”

He took her left hand slowly into his, took out a ring from his pocket and placed it on her finger.

“But where will we go? What will we do?” she asked.

“We can go anywhere we want. We can stay here if you want. I saved up money and quit my job.”

“No,” she said. “There nothing here for you. Nothing for me. We go any where in atlas.”

He smiled. “Then come with me,” he said. “Let me show you the world.”

Holy cow! It’s an arranged marriage.

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She was 29 almost touching 30, working and UNMARRIED. She had recently just broken up with her boyfriend because he had cheated on her again. No worries at all, she was fine and happier in her life to have finally chucked him out of her heart.

Marriage? That wasn’t something in her cards but yes she was almost 30 years old. What happens normally, happened to her too: her parents telling her every day to get serious with searching for a guy and that she needed to get settled soon.

With her recent break up, she really was hardly in the mood of finding someone. Yes, she heard about arranged marriage before and that it wasn’t so bad. So she thought to herself, why not give that a shot since she was anyway not ready to find someone by herself.

One day when she got a call from her mother she finally said, “Okay mom, I’ll see the guys who you have chosen for me.”
Her mom replied excitedly, “Okay, so tomorrow you are going and meeting one of them! I like him the most but I won’t force you so you see him. Tell us what you want afterwards.”

“Alright”, she answered but unable to match her excitement.

She just couldn’t figure out what arranged marriages meant. How do you force yourself to fall in love with someone?

The next day she dressed up and went to a restaurant. He must have probably seen her picture because as soon as she entered, he approached her.

“Hi! I’m Abhiman. Tanvi right?”

“Oh hiiii, I was looking for a guy in a white shirt as mom had described but I entered and saw so many guys in white shirts.” She smiled and continued, “YES! I am Tanvi”.

Now she did feel the excitement. She thought to herself, not bad. He was this Irish-looking guy. Of course he was Indian. She’d be very surprised if her mother actually picked out a gorgeous Irishman. She had watched the movie P.S: I Love you so many times and always fantasised about an Irish husband though she never went any close to Irishmen. But this guy, he was a well chosen one.

They sat down, but there came her first disappointment. She would have loved it if he had pulled out the chair for her or may be just waited for her to sit first. But that’s okay, she thought. Maybe I’m expecting too much. She was happy that this handsome guy, 6 feet 2 inches tall, well built body (may be there was a six pack hiding under his shirt). He had a dimple when he smiled and as a bonus he even looked Irish. Here he was in front of her to be that, what do they call it? “The One”. How easy could life get?!

She thought that maybe she should have just let her mom search for guys all her life.

“So how was your day?” He asked.

“It was a busy start, I had to convince my boss that I’ll do all the work I had for the day in 4 hrs, so that I could get here in time for lunch.” She answered. “How was yours?”

He replied, “Same thing everyday. I work for a company abroad so work starts at 8 pm and by 3 in the morning, I’m back home. So I sleep by 5 and get up when it’s lunch time for everyone. So my day actually just started now.”

She knew this wasn’t a life she particularly wanted. Who would want a husband who is out the whole night and is sleeping when you are awake?

“Okay, so how long are you going to work for them, any plans of shifting jobs?” She asked curiously.

“No, not atleast for the next 7-8 yrs.” He answered.

“So what’s your plan otherwise, like work-wise?”

“I’m happy with this job, I don’t really have any plans. Even after we get married this is how it’s going to be.”

Wait, she thought, what did he just say? Did I even mention that I’m okay with the marriage thing with him?

The waiter took their order, the food was served. It wasn’t bad so she had a good distraction and the conversation continued like a normal chat that two new individuals would normally have.

Suddenly, “Hey! Waiter!” he called out. But he did not just stop there. He snapped his fingers too and when the waiter didn’t answer, he continued, “Oi! HEY! Oi! Bring the salt!”

What the hell was that! But it only got worse. Her eyes went to his plate. He was shabby. He had probably not ever learn to hold his fork and knife. She looked at him once again when he spoke to the waiter who was taking the order for desert. He was eating, speaking and chewing with is his mouth open, all at the same time.

If she hadn’t realized it by then, she surely at that point she knew this was the first and last time with this guy. After that she didn’t care how the rest of the meal was going to go. She just knew that she had to eat, drive home and take a fiesta and enjoy the half day that she got off from work after so long.

As soon as she said bye to the guy whose name she had forgotten already, she started her car and instantaneously got a call from her mom.

Before her mother could say hi, she blurted out “Hello, disgusting choice, he was horrible! Oh my god, he was really horrible ma, I can’t believe this was your choice!”

“What happened?” Her mom asked.

“Cow happened!” She answered.

“What?”

“Cow! He chews like a cow! He calls out to waiters like a cow! He is dazed in life like a cow! Wait, I’m just going to drive. I’ll call you when I reach home. By the way, did you even meet him before?”

Her mom answered feeling like a victim to mockery, “No, not really. I saw his snaps. He earns quite a lot and he is from a good family. Very good parents and ….”

“And disgusting child! Ok, ok, bye I’ll speak to you later.”

The lady who said thank you to her doctor after her death

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Chaobi is a lady patient like any other, who got married and was ready for a child. She wanted a family like anyone would – she, her husband, and maybe two kids. That was her only dream in life.
Chaobi and her husband searched for the best doctor in town and after being recommended to many doctors by every one of their relatives, they finally decided not to listen or trust anyone else but their own instinct and judgment, and they finally chose their doctor.

Her first visit to this doctor of their choice was not very eventful, nor was she very impress as her doctor was far from the kind and soft spoken person she imagine all doctors should be, but she said to herself that there was something special about the doctor and she wouldn’t change her mind now. She was certain she wanted to meet and consult this doctor for the next nine months.

The doctor reprimanded her on her first visit because when the doctor asked her the date of her last menstrual period, she didn’t remember and had no answer. For a brief moment an instinctive fury rose in her at being scolded by the doctor, as indeed so many other patients have, but she checked and reminded herself that the doctor just wants her to be more responsible. After all, she mused, who else can know better about your own menstruation date other than herself?

The doctor wasn’t angry always. He smiled when her pregnancy test was positive, he smiled when he showed her the image of her baby during her ultrasound session, he smiled when he made her hear the baby’s heart beat. Yes, he smiled every time he said the baby is all fine. He had brought countless new lives to the world, and each was a unique joy for him.

Intuitively he is aware hundreds could have, and probably would have, died if it wasn’t for him. It brings him a quiet satisfaction that in his long career he would have contributed a great deal in bringing the female mortality rate down in his state and the nation. To many he was next only to god because he literally gave a child when they thought they were infertile beyond redemption. Before happy serendipity brought them to him, they remember running around everywhere from temples to priests to tantrics, but the blessing they sought remained ever elusive. It was then the unassuming but kind and generous doctor, not by any trickery, but by the practice of science, granted them their life’s wish.

Some poor people have made it known to him that they think it is by god’s mercy that he exists. If not for the free treatment he afforded them when they were so desperately in need, preparing to sell some of their landed properties, they probably would have been pauperised by now.

For some he was a bad doctor who didn’t give much time to his patients, but for Chaobi no other doctor will do. In the time she has come to associate with the doctor, she has come to learn exactly why he didn’t need to give so much time to all. She now knows with confidence that experience has honed his skills and professional instinct, bringing him near perfection in his vocation. She knows without a doubt that brief as the diagnostic sessions he accorded her and other patients were, he would have learnt and cared more about her pregnancy than herself. She also understands if he had scolded her for anything it wasn’t because he was bad but because he was so careful that he didn’t want anything to go wrong. All he wanted was to bring the baby to the world safe and sound.

Forty weeks went by since her pregnancy was confirmed. Well yes those weeks passed by fast for her, she recollected with a smile of contentment. The time for the great moment was near. Her husband was at a loss. All their relatives gather at their residence. There was plenty of excitement, discussions in anticipation of the new baby to enter their lives shortly.

The husband then thought it was time to let the doctor know his family’s gratitude. He decided to go to the doctor’s house to give him some money, a shirt, a tie, some fruits and a bag full of small tokens of indebtedness.

As soon as the husband entered, the doctor as usual scolded him good-heartedly and told him “I’m happy you came home and that you are concerned about your wife, I will be happy to take whatever you bring and give from the heart, but only if you did so after the child is born”, he said. “Go home. My job was only till here – to get her through the pregnancy. The delivery will be done by the doctor who happens to be on duty on the day of her labour.”

The husband went back with all the things he took for the doctor. He felt a little awkward, but also annoyed that the doctor said he was unlikely to be in the delivery room. When he told his wife, she became angry too. But when finally she was taken to the delivery room, before she even realised it, the baby was out. That’s when she realised what the doctor meant. She knew that those nine months of care that he gave was what was actually important.

What she didn’t know was that the doctor was watching her, checking on her vitals and if she had finally come out of the operation theatre safe, like how he does for every other patient of his, no matter what time of the day or night. If he had allowed anyone else to do the delivery of any of his patient it was because they were doctors too, who were also specialists in their own rights, on duty, who also have delivered countless babies already.

Moreover, the doctor also had his life to live, his wife, his parents, his children to take care of as any man is normally expected to. He also has to make sure his electricity bills, phone bills and all the paraphernalia of daily life are settled, attend different family functions, death ceremonies and friend’s daughter’s wedding… Most of all he also has to take care of his own health. After all he is human too. He needs to eat and have his share of sleep too. He can’t be expected to sit at every patient’s bedside day and night. He sees hundreds of ladies each day and he, as their doctor, has to shoulder the responsibility of monitoring each of them to safety till delivery day.

Two years later, Chaobi was pregnant again and she went to the same doctor without a second thought. She went through the same process but this time after delivery she suddenly felt unwell. She had PPH also called postpartum haemorrhage and she died that day. PPH causes 529000 deaths every year in the world of which 136000 are in India. That day she was one of those unlucky ones.  The reason for hers complication was uterine atony or the uterine inability to contract, and the patient over bleeds. Anybody in the profession would know it is not anyone’s fault but the fault of the uterus itself which just fails to respond like any other normal uterus would after delivery.

In her half conscious mind, she heard her doctor’s voice, she heard them taking her to the OT table preparing her for surgery, she heard how her doctor told the nurses to ask the blood bank to send as much blood as needed and to tell them that he would pay for all costs later. She felt his care for her and how much he wanted to save her life but slowly she felt everything slowing down… the voices, her own heartbeats, her breath… Slowly but surely it dawned on her that the end was approaching and there was nothing anybody could do about it. She knew the time to leave her body was upon her.

After she left her body, she finally saw her doctor and the rest of the staff still not ready to give up. They tried until they finally had to stop. The doctor felt shattered though he knew he had done everything he could. It was time to tell the husband. When they told him, he flew into a blind rage and abused the doctor, told him he didn’t do enough, told him that he would take revenge, told him he would destroy his career. He pushed the doctor roughly and violently. Next day he went to the newspapers and cried out to the world about his wife’s death, blamed the doctor and did whatever career assassination he could possibly do against the doctor.
The doctor stood at a corner watching all that was happening and saw his own career and image being soiled so unfairly. He was saddened but remained considerate. He knew that the man had lost his wife which he knew means much more than even his career and empathised with the man. Meanwhile Chaobi’s soul cried bitterly because she wanted to remind her husband of all the care the doctor had taken of her for all those years. She wanted to tell him how much the doctor tried to save her till the very end of her life. She wanted to tell him that the doctor didn’t give up even after she had. Her soul stood in front of the doctor, but she was helpless and knew that the doctor would never hear her. All the same she turn to him and with a reverential bow said, “thank you doctor, thank you for helping me, thank you for all the lives you have saved, thank you for bringing those new lives to the world every day, thank you for just being a doctor for this world.”

PS : There are hundreds of doctors who have stopped working after such incidents, though thousands of their old patients continue to plead them to treat them because they still have trust and faith in them. However such incidents tie up the hands of the doctors and they simply stop working. Not because they in any way think they were responsible for these tragedies but because of the humiliation heaped on them so unfairly by being tagged as murderers.
Doctors are also humans too, this is what many often forget. If the death of a patient mattered so much, shouldn’t the lives they have saved and new lives they have brought into this world everyday matter even more? When doctors see a patient dying, no money or time or food or luxury strike their mind. All that they think of is to do all that they can to save the patient. Doctors are people, not gods whose words are final and absolute. If he could end deaths, they would get the licence to immortality for not just themselves and their families but for everybody in the world.