It’s the 21st century and it’s not uncommon to see women who are successful in all areas, who have the potential to take control, to multitask and create whatever they want. It’s considered as having the masculine energy that makes a women strong and gives her the ability to take care of herself and take charge of her life.

Being the independent kind, they do have attraction towards independent and masculine guys but it becomes hard for them to find one or even if they do, it’s hard for them to connect with one. So, they end up attracting feminine guys or simply a sissy!

There is just one reason for this and it’s the habit of saying – “I CAN DO IT MYSELF”

Masculine guys need to feel masculine. No masculine guy will want to be around a women who never lets him take care of her.

“I CAN DO IT MYSELF” is not always something that proves that you are strong. Having to do everything yourself is a form of weakness. All you are doing is trying to evaluate yourself by showing how strong you are.

A strong women doesn’t need to prove it or exert so much energy to show how strong she is. She might be out of practice of receiving but she is aware that it makes her stronger to be served.

A weak woman needs help all the time. She is always either saying- “help me” or showing signs that she needs help.

A woman who is a step higher than that always says -“I can do it myself and I don’t need anyone else”

But a really strong woman does things a little differently, she says – ” I know I can do it but it’s a lot more fun when someone else can do it for me!”

Men and women need each other. Not for survival or for happiness, not for entertainment or for being vulnerable. Yes, they need each other if they want to enjoy life at a different level.

All the strong ladies out there, it doesn’t make you inferior or weak if you let him do things for you. So, be tender, be passionate and be present in whatever he creates for you. Enjoy the act of being feminine!